Adoptions do not always involve a single child. Sometimes, adoptive parents choose to adopt a group of siblings. The types of sibling groups who are adopted are as varied as the sibling groups that occur within biological families. The most typical sibling group consists of two children, but there are quite a few families who have adopted groups of three or more children. If you are considering adopting a group of siblings, you are probably well aware that adopting a sibling group is a bit different than adopting a single child.
The dynamics within each sibling group can vary greatly. Some groups function in a healthy way, where siblings enjoy strong bonds with each other as well as with their adoptive parents. In some groups of siblings, the children are strongly bonded to each other, but the bond is an unhealthy one because they suffer from the lack of a secure attachment to a loving adult caregiver. The bonds between children who are in this type of sibling relationship may stand in the way of each child developing a healthy relationship with their adoptive parent unless the underlying attachment issues are addressed. This takes time and it takes effort, but it is possible for sibling groups with unhealthy attachments to each other to heal as they bond with loving adoptive parents.
When siblings are adopted together, they often encounter fewer difficulties in making the transition from one home to another. A move can be difficult for any child, and siblings who move together provide emotional support for each other during the move and as they integrate themselves into their adoptive family. Children who are adopted in sibling groups also often have an easier time developing relationships with their adoptive parents than single children or children who have been separated from their siblings do, provided that they do not suffer from attachment disorder, as discussed above.
Sometimes, an older sibling in a sibling group may have taken on some of the responsibilities of a parent. When the sibling group is adopted, it may take their adoptive parents some time to help the children adjust their roles within the family group. Siblings can also help each other to have a sense of their identity, both as relates to their former home situation as well as within their adoptive family. When sibling groups are able to be kept together through adoption, both the children as well as their adoptive families are likely to benefit.
Sibling group adoptions are a wonderful option for parents who would like to adopt multiple children. They are also a good choice for families who are interested in adopting older children. There are many groups of siblings who are available for both domestic and international adoption. If you plan to adopt a group of siblings, Kansas Adoption Attorney Thomas McDowell would be honored to assist you. Please call us today, at (316) 633-4322 to make an appointment for your initial consultation.